Cell Phones may not just be Impairing your Child’s Education…

Science has discovered that cell phone use in the classroom not only disrupts a child’s attention from the teacher, but may also create attachment issues impeding the cut of the umbilical cord; they never truly have a sense of independence.

Parent-child relationships will suffer

If this is not enough, and you feel hearing me say it is better, chime in on my Swellcast. I’d love to hear from you—in 24 hours—explained.

When do you feel it an appropriate time to withhold a child‘s phone from them?

Do you have any steadfast rules?

SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS

Your Best Vacation

I’ve only really had one vacation, so it’s clearly my best. This doesn’t mean I should give up topping it. I am grateful. There are a lot of families who never get to experience a vacation.

Click on the link below to hear me tell you about it. You be glad you did!

Most incredibly magical ten days!

Now that you know mine, tell me what aired on your amazing getaway!

I’ve Been Carrying the Curse for Redistribution

Describe one positive change you have made in your life.

When L❤️Ve is a Debt…

I have always been vocal about my dissatisfaction with the way I was raised. My siblings and I grew up in a household that lacked both financial stability and emotional support. While we did engage in family activities, the underlying emotions were often discordant. The fleeting moments of happiness could not overshadow the prevailing sadness, and even during the joyful times, we felt a sense of indebtedness.

One year, as a 15-year-old, I saved up over $1000 from babysitting all summer with the intention of buying a grandfather clock for my parents. I eagerly awaited the moment to order it from the JCPenney catalog, picturing its chestnut color and the sun and moon rotating with the hands. I was filled with excitement, imagining the recognition I would receive for this significant contribution. However, my parents needed the money to cover a bill and asked to borrow it, promising to repay me.

As Christmas approached, I grew eager to order the clock, only to be given a used 10-speed bike instead. While I was grateful for the gift, my joy faded when my dad revealed it was purchased for $25 at a yard sale, instead of repaying the money I had saved. This revelation made me reflect on my own parenting style, realizing that while I may not have taken money from my children, I may have inadvertently made them feel like they had to earn my love out of guilt.

This realization led me to understand that my children did not choose their circumstances, I chose to bring them into this world on my own, and they should not have to earn my affection. It has taken me this long to recognize that I owe my children a great deal of respect, and that I love them unconditionally. I acknowledge the mistake of perpetuating the cycle of behavior inherited from my parents and have decided to break free from this pattern. I hope I get that chance.

Do you feel loved?

Love is insurmountable, even by time.

People can give you their description of what LOVE is supposed to look like, but LOVE is as individual as the people who feel it. You can love a sibling, parent, a friend, a spouse, a neighbor, a teacher – – The list goes on, depending on what those people bring into your life. Energy.

Love is energy that comes from within your heart, within your being. Love can spread through words, actions, or even facial expressions, and love is everywhere. The most important thing to keep in mind is the beginning where I said, love comes from inside. In order to feel loved, it needs to be around you. For it to be around you, the energy comes from within ourselves.

If you want to feel love, you need to act in a positive energetic way that creates love that surrounds you. Other people pick up on that, and then it will come back to you.

Out with the Old, in with the New—Flu, that is.

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Tired of COVID? A replacement has been found, and we’re now facing the Bird Flu. It’s supposedly going to be 100 x worse. So, considering how horribly COVID was handled, who will you vote for? Your life may depend on it.

Take a 2-minute listen to my podcast for a few more details And do your friends a favor by passing the word around.

www.swellcast.com/t/SU931sCLrhbsGkL

Togetherness Solves a Lot

How would you improve your community?

If everyone had a mind of cooperation, we could solve anything.

Recognizing the truth in the saying ‘it takes a village to raise a child,’ we understand that it goes beyond just providing physical care for growth. It highlights the importance of collective wisdom and shared responsibility in a thriving community. Every neighbor is a valuable asset, offering their own perspectives and experiences to help nurture the future of the society. Picture the powerful effect when everyone works together to share knowledge and support, influencing not just individual lives but also the very essence of what is necessary for survival.

Brewer’s Law is Created

If you could have something named after you, what would it be?

One for all, and all for one.

Yes, my thinking may lack imagination, but it’s still exceptionally worthwhile. Brewer’s Law stipulates that regardless of weight, height, age, race, gender, or level of intelligence, people are paid by community contribution—even if they have a beard. (This includes particularly fuzzy ladies. 🥰)

Love is NOT an IOU

Teaching to give without anticipating returns

It occurred to me today, as I asked my daughter to do something for me, and she replied that she would do it if she got to go on a hike with her friends. There are a couple of things wrong with that exchange of words; we should be willing to help each other, regardless of the “pay,” also, I should be encouraging her to participate in activities outside, getting exercise, not making her earn them.

Go ahead and listen to my short audio attached and see if you agree, disagree, or perhaps have thoughts of your own.

https://www.swellcast.com/t/SU7tNAihWHjmSp9

The True Beauty of Habits

Habits are a reflection of the composites making up your body

Habits can be hard to break, but one of the easiest ways is in considering the opposite—what you don’t want, as well as what you do want, so they can support each other! Go ahead and listen to a two-minute breakfown of how you can get a hanfle on your own well-being right now!

Learn how to be more productive here!

HOPE: a four-letter-word designed to keep us going… and it works!

Without Hope, we wouldn’t breathe

Think about a time you had a foolproof idea and were eager for a friend or family member’s input. Instead of lifting you up, they eagerly expressed all the things that could go awry with your idea and then top it off by telling you how ridiculous you are for even thinking about it.

Can you imagine someone from the 1920’s reaction when hearing about computers you talk into, find directions on, send (e)mail through, and watch images of people speaking to them—all carried in your pocket? Yet, every component that creates the cellphone has had every one of the materials available for centuries!

Nothing is impossible! However, with success comes trials and errors… powered by Hope.

Welcome into a 3.5 minute talk by yours truly! https://www.swellcast.com/t/SU7aIXeF6pOWX8G

Without hope, there’s no purpose.