Using AI is considered a Risk, but I learned it is NOT!

When is the last time you took a risk? How did it work out?

Always read the small print

When people make mistakes, they often look to blame someone or something else for their own shortcomings. For example, you might hear someone complain that their dishwasher isn’t working properly, when in reality, the simple solution is to rinse the dishes before loading them into the washer. By following this basic step, the dishes come out sanitized and free of debris, which is how dishwashers are designed to work. If someone owns a dishwasher but doesn’t grasp this concept, they should take the time to understand how it functions. The term, “dishwasher,” doesn’t actually mean it washes dishes.

Similarly, the same principle applies to AI. People can be inherently lazy but also strive for perfection, which can be a challenging balance to achieve. Just like with a dishwasher, using AI requires some effort and understanding. It’s important to remember that AI gathers information from the internet, which can contain inaccuracies. Therefore, it’s crucial to research and verify the answers provided by AI. Think of AI as the dishwasher for your work – just as you wouldn’t expect dirty dishes to magically become clean without any pre-treatment, you can’t expect AI to perfect your writing without some input and oversight. Both terms can be seen as misnomers in that sense. It’s important to understand the limitations and capabilities of these technologies to use them effectively.

As a writer, I find AI to be a cost-effective alternative to a proofreader. After running my work through AI, I always go back and review it myself. Sometimes I notice duplicated words or phrases in consecutive sentences, words used out of context, or instances where AI has generated content that doesn’t align with my intended message. In such cases, I provide feedback to AI so it can learn from these errors. AI has the ability to store this information and improve over time, adjusting its algorithms to better match the style and level of sophistication of my writing. This continuous learning process is how AI evolves and becomes more effective in assisting with creative tasks.

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Unbelievably, I’m Perfect!

What was the best compliment you’ve received?

Says Noone—EVER! “Nothing perfect exists!” Come on, you’ve heard it before, but the truth is that you can be perfect, and you can have a perfect spouse, perfect kids, and even a perfect accident! “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!” The same goes for perfection: it’s an opinion!

So, when I’m told I am or have done something perfect, I believe them. I mean, why wouldn’t I? Everyone is perfect sometimes. Right? (Just go with it!)

We are ALL perfect… sometimes.

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I Asked for Time…

Do you need time?

Of all the objects we can change, TIME isn’t one.

… but that’s an elusive request. No one has the authority of granting more time, only shifting time slots around. We often find ourselves wishing for more time or feeling rushed by its passing. It’s intriguing how the word “time” is used in different contexts, much like the versatile word “fuck.” We say phrases like “I need more time” or “What time is it?” without realizing the depth of meaning behind those words.

Imagine a world where we could manipulate time, where we could control its flow and duration. It’s an enticing thought, but also one that raises important questions. Would we use this power responsibly, or would we be tempted to abuse it? As humans, we have a tendency to believe that once we understand something, we can control and master it. But perhaps there are certain things, like the passage of time, that are best left to unfold naturally.

In a world where time manipulation was possible, it would be crucial for us to approach this power with great responsibility and respect. The ability to control time is a concept that both fascinates and raises important questions. Would we use this newfound ability wisely, or would we be tempted to exploit it for personal gain? As humans, we often believe that once we understand something, we can control and master it. However, we must remember that some things, like the passage of time, are best left to unfold naturally.

In this hypothetical world, it becomes even more vital for us to consider the consequences and the impact on the natural order of things. We must recognize that certain experiences and processes require time to develop and unfold in their own unique way. By approaching time manipulation with caution and respect, we can ensure that we preserve the beauty and integrity of the natural flow of life.

It doesn’t seem our planet is prepared for this at the current time. We’re still quarreling over land and resources as if we’re four children in the sandbox fighting over who gets to use the pale and shovel, instead of using them together, while child number three creates the blueprint and the fourth builds it. Instead, we have four angry kids, a bucket, a shovel, and formless sand everywhere. Rather than working together, the kids are screaming between hammering blows, or howling with tiny fists rubbing their eyes. No one wins. And time? It marches on… crying babies in its wake.

Mindfulness of “Appreciation Day”

Invent a holiday! Explain how and why everyone should celebrate.

Feeling gratitude is priceless

Imagine a day, out of the 365 days in a year, dedicated to appreciating the incredible impact that our kids, spouses, parents, friends, teachers, clergymen, police officers, firefighters, doctors, and others have on our lives. Let’s delve into why such a day would be remarkable:

1. The holiday would prompt people to reflect on the positive events that have unfolded throughout the year and how they have influenced us.
2. A Day of Appreciation would serve as a reminder to those who perform good deeds that their actions were truly life-changing and worth remembering.
3. Expressing gratitude fosters mutual emotions and encourages the continuation of kind acts.
4. Sharing our gratitude would reveal to those who have never considered the profound impact of seemingly small acts that they can make a significant difference in the lives of others.
5. Happiness begets more happiness. By sharing stories of inspiring events on platforms like TikTok, Twitter, LinkedIn, Quora, etc., people would be inspired to seek out more positive happenings, thus shifting their mindset away from negativity.
6. There is nothing wrong with embracing an outlook that brings us happiness. Having a day solely dedicated to appreciation wouldn’t be a sad occasion or require spending excessive amounts of money to remind us of our joy.

Personally, I would find it immensely meaningful to receive a call from someone saying, “Hey, remember that time when my car broke down and I needed to get to the store, but the weather was relentless? You saved me in ways you can’t even imagine.” Such genuine appreciation would mean far more to me than receiving traditional gifts like chocolates, flowers, or gift cards. If nothing more than causing people to stop and take an inventory for a change.

So, how do you feel about the concept of Appreciation Day?

No One is Safe

What’s something you believe everyone should know?

Cheers to that special person in your life.

No matter how slow you drive, no matter how carefully you look both ways, no matter how paranoid you are before you open the door, no one is ever safe. Nothing is perfect; it can fail.

Learn to live and appreciate the current moment you’re in right now. Look around you and understand this moment will never happen again—not a probability, a certainty.

The first person you see that you know—tell them how important they are to you. You may never get a chance to do it again. LIVE!

Love your family today

How to Feel Forever Young

What does it mean to be a kid at heart?

…Wouldn’t want it for the world.

When people say they want to be young forever, they generally aren’t speaking about how great it is not to be aware of what’s happening in the world. They also probably aren’t talking about killing off Santa, the Easter Bunny, and the Tooth Fairy. However, they do love the feeling of not being held accountable for every little mistake they make. Most times we tell the kids not to worry about it, and now they understand why it’s a rule. Bank? How would it be to start of learning about the hard-earned dollar by saving it without someone else laying claim to it first? Never having had this myself, I do understand the positive message doing this relates to the brain: Save! Save! Save! And watch it grow!

“You’ve mowed the lawn and cleaned your room. Take out the garbage, and the remainder of the weekend is yours!” you might say. That is, before flopping down to sort bills and calculate the payments. Laundry? Shit—Travis has his meeting tomorrow and needs his dress shirt cleaned and pressed. And what about the luncheon tomorrow with the girls? Can’t miss that one—Melissa got pretty upset the last time you missed her birthday. Also, the dog’s been acting weird. Laying down all over the place and whining a lot. He probably needs a vet. Meanwhile, you’ve been so busy that if not for someone asking, “What are you making for dinner?” you might forget.

When you’re all done, you go to bed, toss and turn all night, and wake up to do it again. Entering the kitchen, your son is sitting at the table with a stack of toasted waffles drenched in syrup. “Hey,” he covers the phone with his hand, “the guy’s want to come over tonight to watch the game. That’s cool, right, Mom?” You smile and prepare for seven rambunctious teens and a totally ransacked kitchen, which will need to be thoroughly cleaned tomorrow.

Oh, to be young again…. but would I want to relive my life? No thanks! I’d much rather remain how I am. In my head, I have the same foolish jokes playing out as I always have, bigger goals, and I know now that thirty is not even close to being old, which is a good thing. Too many lives would run amuck if not for you. But in that dream last night, I got to be twenty for free, without negative repercussions, and it was awesome!

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I Don’t Care (seriously)

What’s something most people don’t know about you?

I care about people, pandas, and puppies. I also care about the nutrients in my food, the grades or scores I receive, and I always put in my best effort for any job I commit to. Whether someone is Black, White, or Green impacts me as much as someone short and fat, tall and lean, gay or straight. As long as they don’t try to convince me that I’m a fat Green gay, I won’t try to convince them they are someone else either. I couldn’t care less.

Fighting is easy. Being smart is not.

Something else I don’t care about is people having opinions about how others choose to live when it doesn’t affect them. For instance, Americans often believe they’re saving Aboriginals. Instead, they should focus on the issues in their own country, where there are starving Americans. Is it fair to teach content people that they’ll be happier if they act American? America needs to step down from its pedestal—fighting for power, not freedom.

Consider the side of opposition.

We get defensive, like a hillbilly in Sunday school, when someone tells us, the puritans, how to live. Native Americans were perfectly fine without guns and alcohol. Are we truly making the world better by trying to make other countries like us? It’s something worth considering that we praise ourselves for being different and then tell everyone else to be like us. See anything wrong with this oxymoron?

For every broken chain, there are thirty broken spirits; the trade is unjust.

I’m not someone who rallies with the American flag heavily painted across my face, a picket sign waving violently in the air with the word “Peace” painted in bold red letters. I consider these “peaceful inhabitants” martyrs who love violence and are searching for an excuse to use it. Those genuinely concerned can read, sing, dance, or do many other harmonious things to create a sense of well-being through example. The imitation of warmongers’ kids will be speaking up loudly, and if this doesn’t get the desired response, smacking the opposition in the side of the head with the long side of an oversized sign.

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Force only works when there’s undeniable control. But nothing lasts forever. When the scales turn, true results will be undeniably displayed. There is no place on our planet for scrutiny of physical traits when money has nothing to do with them. Power is what America’s built on. It’s time to cut the circuits. It’s time to actually care.

An Artist is…

Who are your favorite artists?

…an individual who delights and captivates others through authentic self-expression. Whether it be through the strokes of a brush like van Gogh or Da Vinci, the freedom of musical instruments displayed by Lindsey Stirling or Rick Wakeman, or the imaginative vocals of Katy Perry, Lady Gaga, and Madonna, true success in the arts lies in the ability to convey genuine emotions. These exceptional talents, who dared to step out of the shadows and advocate for what they believe in their hearts, are destined to forever grace the pages of history.

Banksy is undeniable in his own class of art.

Acting, another form of art, possesses its own unique set of talents. These selfless individuals, like Johnny Depp, Angelina Jolie, Meryl Streep, George Clooney, Keanu Reeves, and Oprah Winfrey, not only use their skills to entertain but also generously contribute their time and resources to uplift others. They epitomize what it means to be unforgettable.

While my definition of art may differ from that of most people, to me, true art lies in allowing others to partake in your joy. Art is undeniably beautiful expression of oneself.

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Things less common are more appreciated

What is your favorite hobby or pastime?

Nothing beats an escape from pressure

Relax. Simply relax. What exactly do you do when you relax? Some might claim, “absolutely nothing,” but they would be mistaken. Sometimes, taking a moment to unwind is the best choice you can make! If it brings us so many advantages, why don’t we participate in it more frequently?

Responsibilities. Particularly as a single mother. You have an abundance of commitments that if they were represented by pennies, you’d never have to work another day in your life! You are the core of the household. Without you managing the household, chaos would ensue, so you keep everything running smoothly; finances, bills, appointments, school supplies—everything. And by the time the day comes to an end, you’re genuinely too exhausted to even speak, let alone find time for relaxation. Carving out time for relaxation feels like discovering Willy Wonka’s Golden Ticket, but it shouldn’t be that way.

I started my day by meditating this morning, and it was truly amazing! The practice of meditation has a profound impact on my overall sense of relaxation throughout the day. It helps me find a sense of peace and tranquility that carries over into every aspect of my life. Taking that time for myself in the morning has become an essential part of my routine, and I can’t imagine starting my day without it. It’s incredible how something as simple as meditation can have such a positive and transformative effect on my well-being.

The Heritage of a Gypsy

What aspects of your cultural heritage are you most proud of or interested in?

Apart from belonging to a relatively large family, we also led a nomadic lifestyle. To put it differently, in my perspective, we resembled a gypsy family to a great extent. The longest period we ever resided in one location was two years. There were a couple of instances where I attended two different schools within a single year. Throughout my formative years, I had a small group of very close friends. Teri Grant resided in Bradenton, FL during the early 70s, and Jane Kraczek was my best friend in Farmington, Utah during the late 70s. Following Jane, there were Carolyn Murdock and Karena Wren. A few others were scattered in between. Needless to say, I currently have no knowledge of their whereabouts.

As it turns out, my transient friendships were not the only fleeting experiences in my life. While I was born and raised within the same family throughout my entire existence, my lineage is a conglomerate of ancestors. I believe that my paternal heritage is of German origin, although there are some who argue that it is specifically Bavarian. (Interestingly, the only two things I associate with Bavaria are Dracula and cream pie, both of which have an alluring charm.)

Who can say “no” to this?

According to my mother, my great grandmother was a pure-blooded Cherokee who married an Irishman at the young age of 15. However, my little brother’s research skills cast doubt on this claim based on DNA evidence. All I can say for certain is that I have vivid and sometimes prophetic dreams, and I don’t have a taste for heavy lagers. And despite having explored a significant portion of the country, it’s been more than satisfying to fulfill my sense of adventure.

The point is no matter where we originated, we all started from the exact same place at one time. All that really matters is the pie!

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